I understand completely, and hold no grudges. However, a few things to put stuff into perspective, since you feel that Oizy and your DK have no place in the guild. For my end they do, same as any other. Problem is that we only have a "certain" ammount of people in guild who are actually caring about their gear and performance in PvE. We dont hold any expectations that everyone is as "devoted" or that they even should like PvE. Noctem is and have always been a casual guild - we're rarely enough people online to make our own 10 man raids, and even then we rarely have the speccs or classes needed to execute them. Therefor we have been pugging alot, tho with that said, with more or less majority of Noctem members.
Our raids are for on the servers appreciated by others, and people have learned that joining our pugs is a nice experience. So even tho we're "pugging" we can pug quite high in the difficulty.
I have cut down play time alot of late, mostly doing just ToC 10 and some random heroics with Aleksev, and the raids that im invited to in Circus - which is 1 or 2 a week.
When it comes to doing stuff with Oizy it has only been till just recent that he's been geard enough to do the end lvl raids. He is also more than welcome to join ToC 10 with us, just let us know. Just as Grolder has with Björnes.
There has always been a nature in Noctem that the best geard players pull and lift the heaviest loads. And if it was wrong of me and makhail to drag you in to raids under that principle, but we have always been most focused on making the raid, and not that everyone should get the gear the fastest. That i've started to make ToC 10 on a regular basis is my own initiative, no one asked me to do this, i just came up with it on my own seing we had a pug that works well. And this is the issue for many wow players, expecting others to make stuff happen for you.
If you want something done, there is absolutely nothing standing in your way of stepping up to the challenge and start making your own raids with the people you want to bring along. That is why Noctem pugs are popular, because people know we're extremely picky with who we bring along, unlike the majority of pugs who just takes the first to whisper.
Its sad to see Oizy go as he is more than welcome to join our raid. Im not sure where Grodak is in this sense, because i rarely hear or see anything from him in the guild. It seems that the only person he actually speaks to is you, but then again, thats perfectly alright in Noctem. People are people, as long as they are nice they can be as silent or as chatty as they like to, no one judging you here. However, if he's feeling left out of the social part, all thats needed to do speak up
When it comes to circus there is only 1 character i use in those raids which is Huyana. The ToC 10/25 i've done with Ranroad or Nershaan i have made on my own, yes some Circus members joins with their alts, but its still a pug.
When it conserns Anogra, Circus at times have so many online that they create alt-raids. Where you can bring your alts along for fun and loot, tho they prefer it if its an alt who's in guild. They are nice people tho, so they often alow us to bring outside of guild alts just to fill the raid up.
Creating your own guild is not a bad thing, just take it from someone who knows, that managing a guild is -ALOT- of work if you want something what you describe. You will be the one that has to orchistrate "stuff" to happen for all your guildies, else they will or might get bored and find a place thats better at organizing "stuff" to happen for em. I wish you both good luck with your guild tho, but since your keeping Defar in the guild i guess we'll see you around
So, see you later buddy
Subject: time to say a partial goodbye 
Wed Nov 25, 2009 10:05 am
